My H does the same thing - compartmentalizing his life. Weird. Since your kids are older, as are some of mine, what do they say if anything about the S and possible D? Mine never talk about it. My D, who is only 12, does occassionally, but that is it. My son, who just got married, tells his wife stuff and she tells me, but otherwise, I don't know what they think about it all. Do your kids spend more time with you or your H? I think after you hit mid 40's it is near impossible to lose weight! I have done the weightwatchers on line and worked out and I did manage to lose about 25lbs, but still want to lose more and it's just not coming off. But physically you feel so much better when you work out - even just walking. The better you feel inside the more you project that confidence on the outside. I heard on an interview once that Prince Charles wanted Camilla over Princess Di because Camilla had an inner beauty that oozed sexuality. I'm working on getting that!!!
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
