I hope time will heal my wounds. Soon W will not be over at my house everyday and I'll only see her once maybe twice a week. I am still relatively new at this, 6 - 8 months and I am still relatively angry with W. I know I have to forgive her, but what she did is unthinkable, it's crazy I have to forgive her for something she did to me and the kids. I don't know how everyone here is able to do this (forgive). I mad as hell and want nothing to do with her (who wants to be around a liar and a cheat) the site of her makes me sick.
I think that's good that she won't be over every day soon; good for you and your PMA definitely. I think forgiveness comes in time, and I'm still working on that and anger; I think we all have periods of that. Maybe the anger is our brain's way of detaching or something and self-protection because we've realized our WAS aren't healthy for us (now at least)?
I do think in your case your W is unstable and unhealthy, and maybe she can't be in a healthy R with anyone I don't think. Maybe you can forgive her for that in time; I hope she will at some point get more stable and healthier if nothing else for your kids' sakes. Karen
