Well what you may not know Sally's Husband that everyone else around here does is that I'm self diagnosed with ADHD, agoraphobia, mathaphobia (fear of math) and a bit of touretts, so when something changes, I have to be notified.
Thank you very much! We'll try harder with the entertainment
Maybe I should not have discouraged you from posting. There are many of us who would welcome an attempt to understand the thinking behind the WAS. The individual who was agressive toward Favoriteweirdo (guess where he go that name?)doesn't seem to post much anymore. Perhaps he wouldn't find your thread. And if he did you could block his posts so that you didn't see them. This board is kind of addictive, isn't it?
We all would be interested in hearing what happened to change you twice-- once into believing that life would be better without our dear, sweet, beautiful Sally, and again into believing that life is better with dsb Sally.
NNP, yep, love his humor. if only he were just being funny here. lol
bethie, lmao. seriously. when are you coming to boston?
sara, I know h, he just wants to be that fly on the wall. I don't think its anything you said...he was just enjoying reading my posts pre-getting drunk and fessing up to finding the boards. although hey, h, you are more than welcome to extole my many virtues at any point.
Hey all. things are still going well. Today I am off to h's IC. His IC thought it would be beneficial for me to come in for a session (h will be there too)...we shall see. not quite sure what to expect, but H likes him, so I'm sure I will. just not quite clear on the goal of my being there.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
I don't know why the inactivity - I have been checking in every day to see SallyM's posts. Your W has an amazing way of talking about her life and your children etc - I love her posts. She is a most amazing lady..........and I am so glad you saw the light.....truly. It takes a very brave person to go back and try to change things and move on - I have great respect. My H has done the same and I admire him for it. It's a huge learning curve.
Don't you have any work to do at work? Just a thought Saying that....my H took all his staff out bowling today.....and was surprised when he won!!! Of course they are going to let him win....it's pay rise time and he is the boss!!!!!!!
SallyM - I miss you Don't stop posting
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Sending SO many hugs and love your way. I am so happy for you, and for your H (hi, jimmy), and most importantly for your kids.
I have to admit that it was a bit bittersweet to read the wonderful turn-around, as my x went through with the divorce. It doesn't work out for everyone. But like Sally, I now that I will be ok, either way
btw, how much would SallysH charge to call WAHs and tell them that it could be worth reconsidering...?
I love the idea of being a counselor for WAH's...I am thinking $500 per call.
I am currently working on a book deal to tell my story and my script for Lifetime Movie of the Week should be done soon. I am going to try to turn this whole situation into a cottage industry.
Don't stop posting