Jeff, you have taken the high through all of your sitch. Please try to search for the forgiveness.

I think that treating her with the little bit of love you still have left for her, will help you.

She sure doesn't make it easy, though, and really doesn't deserve how nice you DO treat her. It is difficult, but you have to try to maintain the relationship for the kids sake.

And for your own sanity.

And the letting her see the kids anytime? Your sitch is different. Roomie and I have told each other the same. Just not as they please, though.

Praying for you, dude.

Last edited by hopeful4her; 06/27/08 04:22 PM.
Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."