I have the same deal with how I handle the A info regarding the D. I have told only a very select few. Very close friends and family. I handle the why are you getting a D question with "ask my STXW" when the truth comes out later (it always does) I get a double positive in that I did not badmouth her and she has to chose to lie or come clean herself to all the folks who asked about the D. My experience has been that I feel better when I take the the high road or what I call God's path. Churning that bitterness cannot be good for you. Focus on you. Go on a date. Get your hair done. Don't even worry about him.
