Wow, you sound great. Great observation. I hope to get to that place soon, because I DO believe that is the key. Work on you, improve you, nurture YOU, and what will be , will be.

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!