Hmmm, well..... I wasn't exactly sly. LOL But he didn't retreat, and I'm pretty sure he had fun as well.
I just don't know. Our sex life is better than it's ever been, and I know he thinks it's just temporary as I have always been a LD wife. But so much of it was me not having an understanding of what it was doing to him or our marriage. Now I do, and this would NOT be temporary. Which is part of the reason I feel like still initiating during the separation. For him to see, this isn't stopping. I don't know.
Anyway, yeah.... we were talking in our bedroom, when D6 got out of bed. He went to go put her back in bed and I quickly put on a neglige and was lying on the bed "suggestively" when he came back in.
His reaction was to smirk and say.. "well, that's interesting, when did you get that?" (meaning what I was wearing).
To which I said. "I'm glad it made an impression, it was what I wore on our wedding night". And no I wasn't trying to put a big wedding night plug there, it just is the only piece of lingerie I own. I'm more a t shirt and boxers to bed kind of gal.
I'm going to order a few new things though online and surprise him now and then, as I think he liked it last night. Still don't know if what I'm doing is right, but he definitely isn't turning me down, and he hasn't pulled the "I feel guilty, that can't happen anymore" for a few weeks now.
Guess we'll see.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
