Trying ... well if you can call it that, I guess.

[MichelleLT]

My H told OW I had an affair. Not sure if he actually believes it or who else he might have told. But he asked me if I'd had an A with this guy I was friends with while he was deployed in Iraq. I said no of course, because I didn't. Not sure if he believes me. It definitely complicates things.

Depression is common with both the WAS and the LBS. If the LBS wasn't depressed before, the shock of the A/leaving/drama usually is enough to push us over the edge lol.

Don't worry if he realizes what was wrong before. Just be the wonderful, happy, beautiful Abbey you are now. He will see it. (How he reacts to those changes is uncertain, but he WILL notice)

Limbo sucks. Feeling like you are stuck can be strangling. Only you know how long you can endure. And when you can't anymore, then it's time to shake things up and hopefully push things in a better direction.

For now, patience and SMILE!