What is getting me through this the most is being able to talk to all of you. Would your W be willing to read any of the books that have been recommended? (Not just friends, Divorce Remedy?) These books help me. I have to continue to reread certain parts every time I am floundering. Even if you could copy a few pages for her to read. Maybe ask her if she is interested in reading something that might help her right now????? H and I are going to Retrovaille in a few weeks and it can't come soon enough. I wish I had been able to go sooner. We really need something to get us going in the right direction, and hearing other people in the same spot as us with techniques to share will really help us.
I'm glad last night was a good night for you. I love those nights. Be ready.......any thought of OM sparks feelings of anger toward the husbands and OM reminders are everywhere right now.....very fresh.....
