perhaps others are too hurt by their WAS and think they "deserve" some poor treatment, or are not even able to deal with the kids stuff in a decent manner because their Ss are being very difficult-- maybe that's why they feel you are giving her too much.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.