hmmm, I wonder where is he at in terms of healing, if he is yearning to have someone RIGHT now, then it is not the time to be searching for someone. I also had my yearnings and was making plans of how I'd get a date or which sites I'd go to... but then I decided to wait, to be still and make sure I was in a good place mentally.
His D is pretty recent, I dont' know, was he S from his W before that? if not, then he needs more time (in my case we were pretty much S while he lived with me since last summer and when the D comes next year I'd have about 1.5yr on my own, a 1.5yr of healing behind me.)
And yes, that's the book, quiz on Monday
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.