hmmm, I wonder where is he at in terms of healing, if he is yearning to have someone RIGHT now, then it is not the time to be searching for someone. I also had my yearnings and was making plans of how I'd get a date or which sites I'd go to... but then I decided to wait, to be still and make sure I was in a good place mentally.

His D is pretty recent, I dont' know, was he S from his W before that? if not, then he needs more time (in my case we were pretty much S while he lived with me since last summer and when the D comes next year I'd have about 1.5yr on my own, a 1.5yr of healing behind me.)

And yes, that's the book, quiz on Monday \:\)


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.