h4u, I don't know about you, but for me, everything going on in my relationship is seemingly magnified by 10 or more. For example, when H does some little annoying thing, usually it is just annoying, but now it is 10x MORE annoying than ever. It's cause everything is under the microscope right now. Time, time, time.
My friend Deb said the same thing pretty much. She said while she was in her affair that EVERYTHING her H did made her extremely mad, even if it was the littlest thing. But after she got through WD pretty much she started thinking "I can't believe I'm making such a big deal out of those things".
I just hope my WW is beginning to see what you understand, that the hormones/chemical high of the affair aren't 'real'.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
