I dont know if i should be putting up with a H who is at the bar 5-6 nights a week and always putting down my family and friends & constantly making very shallow new aquaintences.
BUT I LOVE HIM STILL. I am dying to call him but I dont think I will. I feel like he needs to come to me - I made the effort the last two nights and he has been distant. TIPPER
Tipper.. you know, you sound unhappier now than when you and your H were not in a relationship.
It seems like he winds you up to get a reactiion. My own H did the same. (Still does from time to time ...)
I found this book very useful; see what you think.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.