Originally Posted By: Tipper

I dont know if i should be putting up with a H who is at the bar 5-6 nights a week and always putting down my family and friends & constantly making very shallow new aquaintences.

BUT I LOVE HIM STILL. I am dying to call him but I dont think I will. I feel like he needs to come to me - I made the effort the last two nights and he has been distant.
TIPPER



Tipper.. you know, you sound unhappier now than when you and your H were not in a relationship. \:\(

It seems like he winds you up to get a reactiion. My own H did the same. (Still does from time to time ...)

I found this book very useful; see what you think.

http://www.amazon.com/Men-Cant-Love-Steven-Carter/dp/0425111709

Nutty


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.