Thanks H. It's been about a year since I first started getting worried at their "friendship" and coming up on a year when she finally admitted it to me.

Been the worst year of my life and I'm ready for it to be over, one way or another.

I know what you mean about not getting too comfortable. Even though I'm encouraged, I'm not letting myself get too high because the fall is too hard.

Good luck at Retro. I've asked my WW to go and she refused, but that was 3 months ago. If she agrees to move back to our hometown with DS16 and I maybe I'll suggest it again as her moving would show me she's somewhat serious about trying us and OM is no longer in the picture.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.