Real life is----part 5

[cat03]

hey sweets, hugs))))))))) you are dealing with a big baby right now (I think I'm insulting babies now). He's having a hissy fit so he comes up with stuff to try to hurt you (calling ugly,evil,etc), sort of like my d5 and s10 when they fight each other, a childish thing to do. I was told one day to rot in heck by stbx during a hissy fit, it passed. Don't give him fodder nor let him dump his internal garbage on you.

I agree with the land line thing, cut it. Keep your food at your friend's or in your room (can you padlock your room?) If he doesn't want to sign the agreement I believe he can be served and taken to court and he'll be fried there without a L since he has no $ for one.

It is true, all Ds are ugly, I've gone back and forth with stbx about stuff a few months ago, we'd have good talks, then we'd disagree and he'd threaten a bunch of stuff, it's bound to happen.

I haven't told my family my S is about him having an ow (that's not the whole reason but a big one) I decided not to spread the ugliness around and that it was too personal for everyone to be talking about it. It also helps you heal and put behind you all that crap he put you through, the few times I've talked to other people about my S I tear up, so I rather just keep it simply and let my wounds heal.

Take care hon)))))))