Ya I knowwhat you mean. I feel the same way about going to retro in 2 weeks. This is it for me a year is toooo long to be in this state..I would rather have been in a coma...

you said:

"I guess I would think if she was upset about DS16 wanting to move to our hometown thus messing up her plan I would picture her being angry, non communicative etc, but it's not been like that. Maybe she's seen the light."

I think I know what you are thinking here... there have been a few things that My W has done that made me “think” the same thing BUT...I can't let my guard down now. I can't fall into that "comfort Zone".

I will not really feel she has seen the light until I KNOW she has seen the light.

Hey it's Friday.....

Have a great weekend

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know