Thanks H. I can't believe how good I feel. I guess I never realized how much the limbo was affecting me.
It's put up or shut up time for WW. Funny, I think it might be good for me. We'll see, but first thing this morning WW is IM'ing me at work. I guess I would think if she was upset about DS16 wanting to move to our hometown thus messing up her plan I would picture her being angry, non communicative etc, but it's not been like that. Maybe she's seen the light.
I was talking to my good friend Deb last night and I told her what was going on lately and she said when her affair had ended and she started realizing how she really did love her H it still took her 2-3 weeks to admit to him she F'd up and wanted to do anything to make it work. I see a lot of similarities with my sitch. It's been a week or so of VERY GOOD communication/interaction between WW and I. Hopefully this latest development will push her to make her decision. Either way I feel great that I won't be in this freakin limbo land too much longer.
Thanks for the comment.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.