One thing I did say to her was that I am leaving all of the physical stuff up to her. I want to be near her and snuggle and hug her but I know that she does not want that. And since I am not sure when she does that I will not do anything unless she initiates it.
Right or wrong I feel it is giving her the scense that I undersatnd what she is going thru and that I will not pressure her into anything.
This took some back and forth between us because its hard to explain so that each of us understand and that feelings were not being hurt but I think in the end it was good.
When we sat down to watch tv instead of each of us in a corner of the couch, she was in the middle leaning towards me. No touching but atleast she was closer than normal and I like when she does that. She does not do this ofter but I feel when she does we are connecting a little bit better.
