I, on the other hand, would love to be told to quit my job, even though I work at home. Perhaps when my kids are older I'll feel more of an actual desire for outside work, but right now, it would be great to have lots of time for all the things that need to be done around here. I didn't work for about 10 years, until both kids were in school, and life was much more peaceful and organized.
Ali, is there a way to compromise? Or maybe you could talk about what most bugs your H about the current situation and find a way to address that one specific thing? Can you give up the work you enjoy without being resentful about being forced into that choice? Can you find some volunteer work that will give you the same boost you get from paid work but will allow you greater control over your schedule?
I bet there's lots of options between the two you've considered so far.
