Do you think he complimented his wife this way? And *to him* is there really any way on earth I could have really been more smart, beautiful or amazing then his wife??? I mean she had his kids, she probably did his laundry, kept his house clean, supported him for YEARS and yes, probably was a bit@h sometimes (aren't we all???), and yet here he was POURING compliments to me. Some relative STRANGER!!!
When I asked him about his marriage and his wife he'd just say it wasn't good. Gee... Wonder why???? Hey, maybe if he'd try talking with his wife like this rather then some woman (women) he doesn't even really know maybe he'd have a better marriage
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