I just am not able to cope with that, especially not right now. I find it very odd that he has the audacity to try and tell DS how to "take a step back if your mad and then think about it" after smacking him upside the head...uh, not able to compute. I also think that its odd that he can boo hoo about his mom having done it to him and then turns around and does it to his son? Doesn't make sense. When in a serious situation that might actually afford him the ability to cast himself in the role of thea adult, he falls right back into old patterns...bullying, blame, shame, physical intimidation; its just so damn sad .

I guess their baby had its legs closed so the sex couldn't be determined...I was not helpful. I told H that meant it probably wasn't a girl then and when he asked why I said, well, its legs were crossed :o. Then I tacked on, well at least one of them knows how . Somehow he just doesn't always find me humorous.
So glad I amuse me .

Check out the new signature if you don't think I'm amused!

Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 06/27/08 05:25 AM.
M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option