Where is the real me? What do I want?

[Ready2Change]

Hi Purple,

Have you figured out if you want to save the M?

Here is my 2Cents:

Do what is in the best interest of D7. Every decision you make, ask is this what is best for D7? I firmly believe that having both parents in a loving relationship is best for the children. Right now, my W is in selfish mode. I need to take the high road and love her even when she is lashing out at me. It is in the best interest of my kids that I take the high road and DB as hard as I can. I will get to a better place, and hopefully with enough time, W will see the "new me" and work on R....