Hope you get the courage and strength needed to travel this meaningless lonely road.
When I read in books about recovering from this event, it sounds like those left behind get the short end of the stick (if the relationship fails).
I have to hope this is not meaningless. I know this has been a huge wake up call for me, a period of renewal and growth, frustrating because I am still stuck.
The unknown when thought of as a whole is so scary. But learning to take it one bite at a time makes it a simpler process. Living in the moment, focusing on what I can do in the here and now seems to be the key.
The whole 'hope' thing is hardest. I must not have it right. Maybe letting go of what I had to gain what is best is the way to go. The good surfaces, the muck sinks.
