Tink - I just had time to read some of the SW book. How do I ever get past all the mistakes I have made???
That's the beauty of it, you can start now with a completely different dynamic and completely change the R forever.
Originally Posted By: Rusty
I emasculated him daily and I have to believe that there is way too much damage to ever come back from.
Oh he will. This guy really loves you. Once you put SW into effect and allow him to be with you, everything will fall back into place. I can't sign any guarantees but this is what I feel.
Originally Posted By: Rusty
I thank you so much for bringing the book to my attention.
You are so welcome.
Originally Posted By: Rusty
I did apologize to my H after the toast when we were talking and told him that I know that I never respected him the way he deserved and I was very sorry about that.
I bet you don't even realize how much repair you just did by doing that.
Originally Posted By: Rusty
Now I am kind of in the going dark part again, laying low and answering when he calls, not too available, just kid talk. We shall see - but the book will really teach me alot!
No there's no need to go dark. Don't pursue him, stay detached to the results, but when he comes to you be available and warm and kind and loving in your eyes and voice.
