Hi - No, I was not at all referring to anything from the Purpose Drive Life. That was just basically a hostile rant from me which I am now not too proud of. There is no need to get agitated by the circumstances which came up in my world earlier this evening. It was a bunch of needless complaining.
I want to do right by my W because I love her every day of the week and every week of the year and so on. The conveyance of that love has been the difficult part. It is all about communication styles. My delivery and her reception and vice versa. We for sure have differing styles and that is perfectly normal. But when you are inflexible with regard to adapting to a foreign or unrecognizable style then therein lies the problem. And I happen to know that the kind of style that I have is in some cases rather atypical to most others. My W is very dismissive to foreign/unrecognizable styles and things. I guess she figures that if she hasn't seen it work sucessfully in the way that I use, then it must be wrong. I hope some of that makes sense. That is the way that I see the inner workings of my sitch. I will turn it all over to God. He welcomes my doing that and I am glad that he does. There is no better friend around.