Woog, I am a tough a$$ when it comes to kids. Unfortunately I lack a backbone when it comes to dealing with H. I am working on that though. It is time to get tough as all get out with him.
When I got home tonight H told me where he took the Ds for dinner. Both of his nights this week he took them out to dinner. POs me that he does that...I feel he should cook for them at least one of his nights.
D10 got upset a couple of times this today because it is H's weekend. There is something she wants to do on Sunday and she doesn't think H will take her. I told her she will have to talk to him about it. I feel they need to start standing up to him also.
When H was leaving tonight I walked out with him. I mentioned that last month he had agreed to talk to the D's T together about how we tell the Ds the news. I said I thought we should go in this coming week and he agreed. I asked him what day would be good and H was trying to figure things out in his head. Then he mumbled something, to which I said "what?" H replied nothing but I think the ars said "the sooner the better." So apparently H plans to go through with this and I guess I say the sooner the better. Right now I am mad at myself that I wasted the last year trying to save this marriage. Hopefully I will at least save myself. I don't think there is any saving H.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
