Update - Hey guys. Came home tonite - W was very depressed. She said she needs to do something about this. Said I am just a stranger to her and she doesn't know me anymore. Then she went into a a whole thing about how the kids hate her. She said she needs space. We decided to go back to the trial separation. She is going to her aunt's tomorrow and will stay until Monday. On Monday night I will go to my parents and stay until Friday.

I'm very down. We actually are getting along pretty well. I don't understand this stranger comment - but I'm not arguing. She still can't articulate what's really bothering her. I told her that I loved her and still consider her my best friend. I told her that i can see something is terribly wrong and that i wish I had an answers for both of us but honestly don't. I than went about my biz and called my parents to make arrangements for Monday. I still don't think she has called her aunt yet. She is in the basement right now painting a birdhouse for our neighbors.

Please say a prayer for better days for my family.

Last edited by mulesqb; 06/27/08 02:23 AM.

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.