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[Committed2Him]

Running (sounds better to me than "ROT")
GREAT suggestion.

cat, 10y/o son could be the responsible big brother and help her. Dad will get the point. Do, do so in a way that S can do so without feeling like he is hurting his dad's feelings, otherwise he may feel conflicted.

I see my wedding ring every now and again as I have it stored with some valuables. It makes me sad but then I have to dismiss the feelings and move on.

He got ticked off and said to stop txting him.

Just reading between the lines, sharing about my experience. X and I tried to be civil but my bitterness would take her comments and blow things up and visa versa. I always sought to be calm and non confrontational which is my nature and she is explosive and maybe even a bit bipolar. Bottom line, we learned to just keep our distance. Really keep our distance and I am happier for it.

just a thought