Everyone here keeps telling me to be patient and that the intimancy will come back. Right now I have had a bad day, H went on business trip (which I encouraged - don't want to seem to controlling, obsessive and crazy) and now I am driving myself nuts with thoughts, anaylizing everything he said and did today and yesterday, going to bed and try and calm down. I do teach art, high school, what grade to you teach? I flat out asked if this is how we are going to live - no sex - and he said of course not, he just needs time. This is a million times harder than I thought it would be.
Me 40 H 41 T17/M14 Sons 7 and 4 OW - yes for over a year "I don't know what I want" 5/29/08
