We all feel that way. Just when you think you've read it all it seems as if there is always something that someone writes that amazes me and not in a good way.
Your story helps a lot of people just by showing that we all will be happy again. Newcomers just aren't ready to hear that it may not be happiness built with their WAW.
BethM,
I wish I could just flip a switch in their heads to believe they WILL be happy again...... Probably not with their WAS.... But, they will be happy......
I know when I was in the middle of it, I never thought I would be happy without Kim..... I thought I loved her soooo very much for those 15 years...... What I came to realize is I loved who I thought she was...... Not the person she really is.... That was an eye opening experience to say the least.....
Looking back, it is kind of weird. When I told my mom early that morning Kim and I were getting married, I said, "Mom, if I don't marry Kim, I will never know how it ends." Prophetic!
Well, that is enough about the past........ The future is great with Ronnee....
Take Care,
RMG
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret