I am very concerned about what people think of me. I know I shouldn't care but I do. I want people to know that HE cheated and not me. I know that I looked down on divorced people and wonder what the wife did in order to not be able to keep her marriage. When people wonder that about me, I want them to know that I was the hurt one and not him. There is no way in heck H and I are getting back together. He has made that crystal clear.
H has sunk to a new low in his stealing. He took a wine cooler. I know it is petty, but I paid $4 for a 4 pack. I only drink wine coolers once in a blue moon and I didn't even share one with my own mother! He knows this and he took one anyway. I knew I should have kept them over at my friend's house. Was planning on taking them over there the next time we had a movie night. I can't trust H with anything and it breaks me up inside.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08