I'm cracking it this weekend while the kids are camping with x and the Boy Scouts.
Is it the one titled: The Co-Parenting Survival Guide by Thayer and Zimmerman?
Thanks for stopping in, Evie (even though the format for your dates has this blonde a bit confused )
Its been a hellova ride! Just told my sitch in a nutshell at the divorce support group I go to with the kids.
There is a very nice man there, divorced in Feb, who got the same BS story as I did (took him only 3 months to discover that the real reason his spouse wanted a D was because of an affair; took me 8). His kids are in the same age range as mine. Think it would make things weird for me to email him and ask if he has plans for fireworks? He said that the only new update he has, is how hard he is finding it to come home to his big house after work when it is empty, how he had always been such a family guy, helping with the kids' homework, dinner, putting them to bed, and how he missed it.... He asked if any of us had tried any online dating sites. I'd be ok with even becoming friends, but I also think he is attractive and has good qualities, so might have potential for more.
OK, I'm not really enjoying this part--I'm not supposed to have to try to figure out the single and dating life NOW, when I never really had one before (I only dated x).
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