Slow down as I said take a step back and breathe. It took years to get to this point it's going to take time, nobody gets divorced that quick. Talking to a L is just talking, it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to start looking into it just to protect yourself, so you know what to expect. I'm not saying it will happen don't read me wrong, just saying a bit of knowledge doesn't hurt. H doesn't even have to know you did.
