I am wrong in thinking he is only thinking of himself?
{{{tmarie}}}...
No you aren't wrong about that at all. At this point that is all a WAS is thinking me me me....
You have chose to take your responsiblity for your part, that is a good first step. Remember though it takes to tango & right now he isn't going to admit anything.
Take a deeeeep breathe, take a step back & focus on yourself D and S right now those are the 3 most important things. There all kinds of wonderful people here, they will listen, give advice & opinions and in same cases if it merits it you may get some 2x4's that help you to stop and take a good look at yourself.
Jeff is a good one to have talking to you at this point. As you post more, there will be others come along to help out.
Patience is key, low expectations, & love your kids you have not done anything wrong...
