I will say that I did the t-shirt and panties thing early in the sep and it totally didn't work. Sex had to be on his terms and HIS moods back then. Worth a try.

((Jeff))

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."