I just wanted to clarify that my XH's new wife is NOT the OW. He met his new wife about a year after our D was final, so I have no bad feelings whatsoever for her. When they met ( which was about 4 years ago), she was living with her in-laws and her 2 kids, then ages 10 and 12. Her husband had passed away from leukemia 7 years prior to that, and she was living with her in-laws to make ends meet. She is a good Mom, a hard worker, and a really nice person. I have to overlook the fact that she is a little "hottie" with a body that doesn't quit! LOL!
I speak highly of her because she has been nothing but wonderful to my children and nothing but a good influence on XH. It seems that they are happy with each other, they have been M for 3 years now. I have long ago figured out that if XH's life is going well and he is happy, that trickles down to my kids. So, I wish him nothing but good things. The fact that he is now being a good Dad makes me respect him ,and the past is now in the past.
Well, I will stop now as not to highjack YOUR thread, as I did VJ's! LOL!
I am glad you enjoyed your breakfast with your gf's...gf's are such a great aspect of life.....I need to find a few more myself!
