Withdrawal of OM and coping

[Hope4us]

Sounds like to me you H "get's it". If he made the statement about the foundation I think he is very wise.

I would kill to have my WW have the same attitude as you. I really think she's trying but she's afraid if she says she f'd up that things will return to the way they were. They weren't bad by any stretch, but the things that she's complained about I've been working on big time and I think she notices but doesn't want that to change.

I'll make you a deal. When I see you getting impatient, I'll remind you and you do the same for me and we'll both have the marriages we deserve in the end!