That's why I'm talking about "accidental" seducing. A low cut shirt, some extra buttons undone "accidently". Some cleavage showing. Putting on just a t-shirt and thong panties when he may drop off the kids a bit early. <surprise>. "oh, you're early. let me go get dressed...it's just so HOT in here."
It's not obvious. It's not persuing. Totally an accident.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."