I think you have to be careful with sex. if H's resentment is still there- it is not really the time for casual friend sex....as you and he still need to let go of resentment and hurts. i think it is another way of pursuing...or confusing things.. BUT if it works then do it...i just dont want you to feel the HUGE letdown each time....you are doing well ...NO R TALK. He needs to slowly bring his "stuff" to you- it will hurt to hear it but thats all you have to do is hear it and acknowledge HIS feelings...this is not a fast ride- VERY SLOW...even SLOWER with LE!! i am a LE wife too- YIKES- so many os us! and yes- i do agree that they are very private- in fact my H said this on our talk/walk- first time he ever acknowledged it!
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