No, you really can't tell him while he is there! He has plenty on his plate! If he is sounding good now, I think he'll be fine getting through it, and the time will fly. The feeling I got from my son was that they really want you to succeed, so as long as he is motivated, he'll make it through. I never thought my son was the "type", and yet he really seemed to do well. He's in the reserves, and his unit got called up just in time for him to go to Djibouti, Africa for 7 months!
(((((tmarie)))))
You didn't fail her, you are not the one that has failed.
