Sara, thank you: I've been thinkig and praying for you a lot Jeff
My day started getting better this afternoon, AC unit will not cost $3400 but on $1800, I called and talked to AC repair man my W was talking to and found out I'll be ok with the $1800 coil replacement.
W called me excited about a job interview she has on Monday, W said she couldn't wait to tell me about the job and her interview. When I got home I told her I was happy for her. Trying to keep positive attitude towards her and be the bigger person in this situation.
I still don't expect her to ever return to me, but I know I'll be ok. Softball league I signed up for at work I ended up on a team I didn't know anyone, part of GAL, meeting new people, coed teams so I'm meeting a lot of nice girls too. We are 4 and 1 and we are in first place on Wednesday night league.
I wish I didn't have to go through all this crap, and I know I'll eventually have to file for D, and I hope my W doesn't want to fight me on my main points, I get the house vs. trade off of she doesn't have to pay child support. I get full custody of the kids and she can have them every other weekend, L says this is standard and I can let W have them more if I want, I will tell W I will not stand in her way and she can have the kids whenever she wants. She'll get 1/2 of my 401K, I get the new mini-van, she'll take my 1997 Ford F-150 truck (in great shape)
Comments - suggestions I have plenty of time
I need to keep moving forward with my life
Well "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" I hear whistling in my head. I'll find love again someday. I'm going to be happy, helpful, forgiving, patient and loving. I'm a stubborn old German.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
