How Much BS do I believe?!

[pisces9]

I am working to correct:
REALLY listening and hearing him and staying quiet and shutting up.
I am letting him make any decisions with very little feedback regarding our cabin sale.
I am praising him and acknowledging him for everything under the sun when I get a chance.
I am giving him the gift of space and time.
I am loving, unconditionally.
I am understanding where I mismanaged my connection w my family.