How Much BS do I believe?!

[pisces9]

i know- i meant to add that i know i have many things to change.

I didnt listen to him- really hear him- i thought i was but i now know it wasnt enough.
I am too connected to my family (fam business, $, proximity, etc.) although I thought we were working to fix this?
He said we were drifting apart and didnt have anything in common..

He had been depressed for months before this and asked for a Therapist for help- i gave him some #'s but he never called- i didnt pressure him about this.