New to this forum and need help..

[tmarie]

what a disaster... I blew it big time.... I came home last night from GAL.. and found pictures of the OW in plain view for all to see including D14.... I let it go for a second. Until I found money transfer receipts and an addtional airline ticket to the phillipiens for him to visit her... I blew it... I lost control... and I threw things not at him, but he sure was surprised when he woke up...

and then to find out my D14 has known something was up... She told a friend whose Mother is our employee and the mother said something..So we had to tell her... it was the worst thing I have ever done in my life I have destoyed my own daughters life.. I failed her. All she could do was cry in sadness a deep painful saddness that I helped to create. All we could do was to tell her we loved her. that she was the most imortant thing to us both. but the look in her eye... so wounded and sad; how do I help her.