Thanks SC. I read most of that thread, and had to keep myself together because I am still at work. I'll definitely be buying "Good Husband Great Marriage" in the next few days.

I do have a question for you...I know many of the underlying issues have been festering and not addressed by either of us in the years and last week, there were several stressful and upsetting events that took place that brought all of this to a head. She even acknowledged that we should have talked about things sooner before allowing herself to become detached from me. So, I guess what I am asking, do you think it is common for Ws to explode or is it more typical to just surpise the H out of the blue. I know it doesn't change where we are and what I need to do, but some very stressful and fearful things happened early last week, along with her b-day. Just trying to make sense of out things....

Me 34
W 33
D 4
S 2
M 5
T 8
Bomb 6/17/08
Served 7/17/08
I hate Tuesdays!
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