She has admitted to me that she knows that she has to end it. Even if it is just for now. Her thinking is that it would be, not for us, but for her. Her peace of mind. She knows her guilt. That is what I took away from our last discussion.
ASSUMING this to be true(yes, I know the saying), then I will let her do it her way. That MAY be what she is doing right now.
We can then have a talk in about 2 weeks to evaluate what she is doing or has done. I can always check and validate. There was really not contact with him all week last week. He found out of her illness by my ex SIL. He made several attempts to contact her and she only texted him once to tell him she is ok.
I am going to give the benefit of the doubt.
I can't kick her out and I will not abandon her at this time. That is not who I am.
I don't disount what you say and I do understand what you are telling me. My sitch just has so many twists and turns.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
