Thanks everyone! I guess what he was ticked off about was that I had called the car insurance to get it split and explained to the insurance guy (who H has used since before we were married) that we were in the process of divorce. He said, oh I am sorry and I said, "well there is another woman." Because I want people to know that this all wasn't my doing or my choice. Well the conversation went on and he wanted to know H's address to send him his new bill. I then had to say how H hasn't moved out. The guy says, "Wow! What a jerk! First he runs off with another woman and then he expects to live in the same house as you?"
So in a way I am telling strangers, but I don't feel regret about it.
Sara, I would strongly advise against this. I did a LITTLE of it, and later regretted it when my wife and I reconciled, and now some people treat us strangely.
