Thanks everyone! I guess what he was ticked off about was that I had called the car insurance to get it split and explained to the insurance guy (who H has used since before we were married) that we were in the process of divorce. He said, oh I am sorry and I said, "well there is another woman." Because I want people to know that this all wasn't my doing or my choice. Well the conversation went on and he wanted to know H's address to send him his new bill. I then had to say how H hasn't moved out. The guy says, "Wow! What a jerk! First he runs off with another woman and then he expects to live in the same house as you?"

So in a way I am telling strangers, but I don't feel regret about it.

I got the mail thing worked out. I can put my mail on hold and have his still delivered. That way I won't be "breaking the law" and he won't have to "sue me" for withholding his mail. Geesh!


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08