He tells me that because I am telling everyone about what he did, I am "defacing his character" and I have "no right to do that. It is just as bad as what I have done." "Two wrongs don't make a right." Honestly, is it bad that I am telling anyone who asks that my H cheated on me and wants to be with the other woman and he won't leave the house? Don't I have the right to say that? Sara
No, I don't think so. I think it wouldn't be good if you were just telling everybody without their asking or complete strangers or something, but if a friend asks you I don't see anything wrong with you telling the truth and not having to lie. (I have been doing that recently as well: telling the truth when friends ask me, so if that is evil or wrong, I guess we both are evil then.)
I think only a WAS would equate their cheating on you with you telling the truth. Obviously, that's crazy and something only a WAS would think or say! And he has made his own character, and if his behaviors and actions reflect poorly on him, that is his fault and not yours. Karen
