my H has been a cop for 8 yrs. he actually JUST promoted to SGT less than one month before the bomb.
it took him two tries and finally made it- i think that led to his depression and MLC issues.
h is very withdrawn but not really a "cop cop"...but they see so much stuff at work it is impossible not to let it affect you...
there is VERY little of any support in that field.
all they do to "relax" is serious athletics- very intense training- which is good...to an extent...
OR DRINK! with everyone after work to "relax"...also a very high rate of affairs and suicide.
sad.
i put up with so many shits changes and late hors, missed days off etc and NEVER complained...i was always happy to see him....i also always heard his stories and scary incidents...
oh well- im sure he misses that
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